Do you love with your love handles? Do you love your current financial turmoil? Do you love your worst relationships? Do you love your arch nemesis? Do you love your miserable life or job? Your answer is probably the same as mine, an emphatic no. Then why do we constantly think about these things, talk about these things, and get so emotional about them if we don’t love them?
Where attention goes energy flows…
There I said it. Most of us spend a great deal of time focusing on, talking about, thinking about, and feeling about that which we dislike, don’t want, can’t stand, makes us sick, makes us so mad that we forget about all the good stuff. We spend far too little time talking about, thinking about and feeling about that which we love, makes us so happy, makes us feel so good, that we live in such low vibrations and energy. Therefore we begin to attract more of the things and circumstances that are equal to our lowered vibrations. That really sucks.
This quote really speaks volumes when we consider the state of our human existence. Let me ask you a few questions, so you may ponder them if you like.
Why do we constantly wonder how we are going to do something?
Why so much fear?
Where is the faith?
Who ever said we needed to know the how at every moment?
When did we become so egotistical that we could do everything ourselves, solving every problem?
Like a caterpillar becoming a butterfly, I have been transformed. I am new and fresh. Living as my true self is such a relief. Not bogged down by what others might think, what will they say if they read my work and say ……………………………WTF is she talking about. Being my true authentic self I attract more of the things, people, and circumstances I desire. With a raised awareness I can think from the end. Changing of the guard for sure.
I am 100% AUTHENTIC
Just the other evening I was hosting my Law of Attraction meetup group. This group has gone through it’s own transformation just as I have, but mine started years ago. In these meetings I often bring up PASSION and how important it is in the manifestation process. This strong emotion will bring about change always every time. I have written two blogs about it so far Passionate Purpose and In The Absence of Passion both of which weren’t quite to the point I wanted to make. Really though I haven’t said exactly what I wanted to say. I was sort of beating around the bush. Should I just go ahead and flat out say it and be authentic or should I hold back leaving out authenticity entirely? Me a Life Coach not being authentic…oooh nooo!
The transformation for me started several years ago when I first saw the movie “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne. It just so happens that I read “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill long before that. Not realizing what it meant or even considering that the profound information that Napoleon Hill talks about would change my life. So I disregarded it as just some other rah rah motivational book. How wrong I was, watching “The Secret” over and over again trying to understand what the teachers spoke about when discussing emotions. Using emotions and feelings attract what you desire most. Then picking up “Think and Grow Rich” not so long ago for the second time.
Hmm…….this is so not the book I read all those years ago. I kept looking at the cover to make sure it was, and sure enough it was the exact same book this time the pages started to take form and holding my attention, causing me to think. If only this book had meant more to me way back when. Clearly it was not my time, but it is soooo my time now.
Perhaps you missed it too? Perhaps you haven’t taken notice, or you purposely ignored it. Maybe you read it and are afraid to ask someone excatly what it means. Surely you missed it? The Tenth Step Towards Riches….If you by chance just skimmed over this step go back and read it! Here’s why and I quote…..
“Sex transmutation is simple and easily explained. It means the switching of the mind from thoughts of physical expression, to thoughts of some other nature. Sex desire is the most powerful of human desires. When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage will-power, persistence, and creative ability unknown to them at other times. So strong and impelling is the desire for sexual contact that men freely run the risk of life and reputation to indulge in it.” Napoleon Hill “Think and Grow Rich”
“ The emotion of sex is an “irresistible force,” against which there can be no such opposition as an “immovable body.” When driven by this emotion, men become gifted with a super power for action. Understand this truth and you will catch the significance of the statement that sex transmutation will lift one to the status of genius. The emotion of sex contains to secret to creative ability. ” Napoleon Hill “Think and Grow Rich
What about this so called Sensual Manifesting.
I am sure you are wondering, what brings this about. Well to be honest I know that this is the emotion used to attract your hearts desire. The passion the sex emotion is where your manifestations lay waiting for you. One reason why I love Morgana Rea’s Money Honey lesson is because to me it so so part of the idea that sex and passion are our highest emotions meaning, when you use these emotions they give off the highest and best vibrations when visualizing for manifesting. There is a reason why these emotions cause such a reaction in you, me and everyone.
When it comes to life are you settling for what life throws you or are you exploring and creating to get what you want and live life to the fullest? Do you even agree with the statement “what life throws at you”, or do you believe that we have created our life up to this point and today we create our tomorrow? Is your life stagnant?
Let me explain.
It’s been a while since my last post and I have been sort of stuck in the process of trying to decide what to write about. Then after sending out an email to some folks who are in one of my affiliate companies, I received a reply which said ” I am not interested …..” So I removed this person from my email list. I am not bothered by the fact that this person isn’t interested I am bothered by the countless people who say they want more out of life but aren’t willing to do what it takes to be inspired to action. I understand that there are those who don’t want more, but what about those who wish they could have more and then don’t act. When the opportunity knocks they pass it by believing that, it’s too good to be true or are afraid of success and what that might entail? Have you been socialized to believe that you have to work really hard to be successful in this life, and then you still may not be, or that only the few lucky ones actually make it in this life. Life can be so beyond if only we would look beyond what is in front of us, past our current beliefs.
What are your core beliefs?
If your core beliefs do not serve you as you, you can change them. You don’t have to settle for whatever washes ashore to you. You don’t have accept it, you can toss it back and swim out to get what you really want. Many of us settle for less because we have been socialize to believe that “this is as good as it gets” and that” life isn’t fair”, or worse we believe that we can’t have what we want. So we choose to live a life with limits. There is no certain way you have to be.
“I encourage you to alter your core values if they are not contributing positively to your life and to the lives of others. If you do not consciously make those adjustments, then you are tossing yourself into the dumpster of victims, martyrs, the have nots, and followers. Where you came from does not dictate where you are going forever and ever. It is your choice. Chose wisely.” Ole Carlson
Again I ask you what do you believe, I mean really in your core? Creating the life you want is about being open and accepting, allowing others and yourself to live authentically. Does your belief system have room for allowance and acceptance, or does it limit you to just a certain way of thinking and being. Does it lead you to be prejudice of new thoughts new ideas and new ways of thinking? Are you set in your ways not allowing yourself to be changed? Do you plan for the worst or do you enjoy the mystery of things to come with joyous anticipation? Does your anger, hate and resentment keep you from truly enjoying life?
So you see your core beliefs determine who you are. I ask you again what do you believe? Are you willing to break old stagnant core values for the bright new ones that come along?
How Do You Change Your Core Beliefs
If changing your core beliefs is what you desire. You can follow these steps. You may have to do some serious souls searching. This may take a Life Coaching Session
1) State what your core beliefs are and have been. The ones that don’t currently serve you.
2) Accept that you have these core beliefs that do not serve you.
3) Dismiss the un-serving core beliefs as not benefitial
4) Declare to the Universe that you desire to have more core beliefs that serve you and other well
5) Declare what those positive core beliefs are
6) Turn those positive core beliefs into affirmations and use them.
Follow these steps will change yourself from the core. Your guidance system will guide you to changing from old to knew and all you have to do is believe.
Melissa E
Success Coach
8 Hours To Law Of Attraction Success Intensive (Teleseminar)
The best 68 seconds you could ever spend! Mmmmmmmm! Sounds good, right?
Suppose you could have everything you desire in a matter of minutes? What would you do to get it? How much would you spend to have everything your heart desires? Would you spend your last dime? Would you travel to earth to find the answer?
What if I told you that having a blissful human experience is much easier then we make it out to be.
”Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. Matthew 7:7-8
What an awesome feeling to know that whatever you ask for you will be given. That knowing alone relaxes every muscle in my body. You can ask with words and that’s easy. Asking from a vibrational standpoint requires some concentration about 68 seconds worth.
If you can hold a pure thought in one direction for 17 seconds without any contradictory or competing thoughts you raise your vibration tremendously thereby activating the manifestation process. To go even further if you can do this for a total of 68 seconds WOOHOO your desires come flying at you in high velocity.
