Category Archives: Getting What You Want

It’s Your Move

“There is no competition only creation” Wallace D Wattles

 

First let me say this…where ever you are in life right now is exactly where you should be so love it.   Don’t compare yourself to others and their station in life. Just remember that YOU have the power within you to create the experiences you desire.  All you have to do is decide you want to change and then make your move based on whats good for you.

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With that said….

Most people want to change and at the same time they don’t.

Isn’t that interesting?   I am sure you are wondering what I mean, right?  ”

Well here’s the deal… there is a battle between what we want consciously and what we want sub-consciously and MOST OFTEN the sub-concious  mind wins.  This is because our entire being is ruled by the unconscious mind. Our  heartbeat, breathing, walking, talking, blinking you name it.

It’s programming…..plan and simple

You have been programmed to want, want, want, want and never really take any action.  That takes a behavior change or changing your energy.  You really have to “get off your ass so to speak if you want change.

All too often I come across men and women who for some reason want to change and when presented with the one opportunity to make a smooth transition to success they decline.  I am always perplexed  with this.

Doing the same things over and over and expecting a new result is definition of insanity and yet most people are happily comfortable doing the same things over and over and expecting something new to miraculously show up……NOT GONNA HAPPEN.

In order to have something new happen you have to do something new.  That is the only way to TRULY have change in any area of life.

So whats the hold up?

The hold up is deeply ingrained in your sub-conscious mind.  Deep down in your programming, deep down in the rules you have set for yourself.  Rules that you willingly abide by.  Rules that do not serve your highest good. Rules that keep you doing the same things over and over and expecting something new.

All those RULES are tied to fear.  Fear of success, fear of change…..   FEAR!

What does this have to do with applying The Law of Attraction?

Well LoA is a law that, basically states like attracts like, and if you are in a state of FEAR guess what you will attract……that’s right MORE FEAR!

The reason is you DO NOT attract from what you say you want.  You attract from how you feel about what you want, and that is the bottom line.  Attraction is based on your programming.  If you are programmed to “Money is hard to get” or “The rich get richer while the poor get poorer” then guess what?  The Universe will support you in those feelings, and until you deliberately decide to change your INNER SELF or Subconscious mind then you will attract the same ole stuff you always have.

You CAN be a magnet for everything in your life – all you have to to is decide.

How soon do you want to become a magnet to everything you desire?

Would  right now be good for you?

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Follow Me To Bliss With Sophie’s Bliss

+-When you follow your bliss… doors will open where you would not have thought there would be doors; and where there wouldn’t be a door for anyone else.” ~ Joseph Campbell

Just when I was thinking “Wouldn’t it be nice to be on someones show” then the Universe granted my wish.  Sophie asked me to be her first live guest.  Surprisingly Sophie is only a 20 minute drive from my home!!  I was very excited.  WOW! The power of social media.

Thanks Sophie!!  Watch Sophie interview me! Post your comments.

 

 

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So…., What About Your Burning Desire?

“…desire without expectation is nothing more than wishful thinking and as we have already pointed out, since the vast majority of people wish positive but expect negative, they seldom attain what they are after.” Bob Proctor – You Were Born Rich

 

There you are on fire with desire, a burning yearning for that which you seek.  You go forward with that desire and months or years later you haven’t reached your goal.  Now you are saying “this crap is a bogus crock of pu-pu, where is my stuff!!”  Hmmm have you been there before?   If you have I am sure you aren’t alone.  There are tons of people being “introduced” to the Law of Attraction as if it were a new neighbor.  Even when I first saw the movie The Secret some people called it New Age mumbo jumbo, not realizing that this Universal Law is always at work whether or not  you believe in it or not.   What I discovered that this “mumbo jumbo” is quite real and not New Age at all.  It goes back further than you can imagine.

Here’s what you must realize. 

 What  I can suggest you believe is that you can co-create your life  with the Divine.   The Law of Attraction works ALL the time and for the good or the bad you FEEL and THINK.  Even before I ever heard about Law of Attraction it was working in my life,  attracting all the junk, and all the jewels I have ever experienced in my life, especially as an adult, for better or for worse it was working.  It wasn’t until I realized that life doesn’t have to be a struggle, that God created me with excellence and that as long as I realize that in God there is no pain, no lack, no sadness, no shame, no poverty, but only happiness, joy, abundance and plenty.  God is in me therefore all the “riches”  I desire are also in me.  With that said you get to decide how your life can go.  Isn’t that an awesome feeling.  We are more powerful then we think especially when we realize that The Divine, God, Source or Creator is in us.

A burning desire is just a long standing wish. 

In order for your desires to become something so delicious and real  it must be coupled with expectation.  Expectation is the trust and faith in knowing that your prayer has been answered, so it is time to celebrate.  You can not ask for a thing or circumstance from a position of doubt or negativity. I am not talking about expecting the unexpected, but more so to expect the treasures you seek are in existence in the present moment. Once you ask for the thing or circumstance you desire you then feel the feelings of profound satisfaction, gratitude, and joy.  You mustn’t ask for the thing or circumstance and wait until it happens to feel joyous and grateful.  If you wait you will never see the treasures the Universe has in store for you and the Universe is abundant.

A Reason To Celebrate.

“Do you have an end zone dance?”  Coach K

Just last week Coach K asked the Mastermind  Groupif we had our end zone dance.   Coach K is an awesome and inspirational coach and person.  I am so happy and grateful to have him in the group.  He always brings food for thought.   I don’t know if his message was received by the group as well as he put it, because he did and awesome job.  I was at the time reading Bob Proctor’s “You Were Born Rich”  and hadn’t arrived at the Expect Abundance chapter, however just before the next meeting I read this chapter and it clicked.  The End zone dance is about celebrating, and if you have seen any end zone dances you know they practice those in practice, in private where ever they can.

What Coach K was expressing and what I hope to express to you here is that once you ask for the things or circumstances you desire you must prepare, and if only in practice, your end zone dance.  You practice because you know like you know  that the thing you desire is already here.  I could go into detail about the sub-conscious mind and how it works only in the present tense and that is why you celebrate in the now and not wait., but that is an entirely different blog. :) You are celebrating your successes even before they are real.  As long as they are real in your mind that is all that matters.  Victory is yours when you first ask.   Expectations can be set high because The Universe has already set into motion whatever has to happen in order to give you what you desire.

Expect only the best and highest, and celebrate it now.

Melissa E. Watts – Law of Attraction Mommy

Personal Development Coach

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Is Your Life Stagnant?

When it comes to life are you settling for what life throws you or are you exploring and creating to get what you want and live life to the fullest?  Do you even agree with the statement “what life throws at you”, or do you believe that we have created our life up to this point and today we create our tomorrow?  Is your life stagnant?

Let me explain.

It’s been a while since my last post and I have been sort of stuck in the process of trying to decide what to write about.  Then after sending out an email to some folks who are in one of my affiliate companies, I received a reply which said ” I am not interested …..”  So I removed this person from my email list.  I am not bothered by the fact that this person isn’t interested I am bothered by the countless people who say they want more out of life but  aren’t willing to  do what it takes to be inspired  to action.   I understand that there are those who don’t want more, but what about those who wish they could have more and then don’t act.  When the opportunity knocks they pass it by believing that, it’s too good to be true or are afraid of success and what that might entail?  Have you been socialized to believe that you have to work really hard to be successful in this life, and then you still may not be, or that only the few lucky ones actually make it in this life. Life can be so beyond if only we would look beyond what is in front of us, past our current beliefs.

 

What are your core beliefs?

If your core beliefs do not serve you as you,  you can change them.  You don’t have to settle for whatever washes ashore to you.  You don’t have accept it, you can toss it back and swim out to get what you really want.  Many of us settle for less because we have been socialize to believe that “this is as good as it gets” and that” life isn’t fair”, or worse we believe that we can’t have what we want.  So we choose to  live a life with limits.  There is no certain way you have to be. 

“I encourage you to alter your core values if they are not contributing positively to your life and to the lives of others.  If you do not consciously make those adjustments, then you are tossing yourself into the dumpster of victims, martyrs, the have nots, and followers.  Where you came from does not dictate where you are going forever and ever.  It is your choice. Chose wisely.”  Ole Carlson

Again I ask you what do you believe, I mean really in your core?  Creating the life you want is about being open and accepting, allowing others and yourself to live authentically.  Does your belief system have room for allowance and acceptance, or does it limit you to just a certain way of thinking and being.  Does it lead you to be prejudice  of new thoughts new ideas and new ways of thinking?  Are you set in your ways not allowing yourself to be changed?  Do you plan for the worst or do you enjoy the mystery of things to come with joyous anticipation?  Does your anger, hate and resentment keep you from truly enjoying life?

So you see your core beliefs determine who you are.  I ask you again what do you believe?  Are you willing to break old stagnant core values for the bright new ones that come along? 

How Do You Change Your Core Beliefs

If changing your core beliefs is what you desire.  You can follow these steps.  You may have to do some serious souls searching.  This may take a Life Coaching Session

1) State what your core beliefs are and have been. The ones that don’t currently serve you.

2) Accept that you have these core beliefs that do not serve you. 

3) Dismiss the un-serving core beliefs as not benefitial 

4) Declare to the Universe that you desire to have more core beliefs that serve you and other well

5) Declare what  those positive core beliefs are

6) Turn those positive core beliefs into affirmations and use them.

Follow these steps will  change yourself from the core.  Your guidance system will guide you to changing from old to knew and all you have to do is believe.

Melissa E

Success Coach

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