5 Ways To Stay in The Gift of Now!

Posted on January 19, 2012 by MelissaEWatts| Leave a comment

“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is God’s gift, that’s why we call it the present.”- Joan Rivers 

 

So then , why is that we spend so much time reviewing the past and trying to predict the future when the only time frame we have control of is the present?

What about the past?

Memories can be filled with love, joy, and happiness those are the feelings we want to take hold of and bring them into the now.  However more often those memories are filled with pain, sadness, regret, anger & guilt. Those are the feelings we want to leave in the past.  Those feelings do not serve us in our present day lives and are not resourceful.  When we are focused on those negative feelings of sadness, regret & guilt from the past we send out that very same vibration into the Universe and therefore we manifest more of the same.

What about the future?

Imagining what might happen is great until our imaginations seek the worst possible outcome.  We have no way of knowing EXACTLY what will happen good or bad, although we can imagine only good outcomes or only the outcomes we desire.  Many ideas about the future are rooted in hope, love, bliss and joy, and more often others are rooted in fear, lack, and desperation.  Some of the thoughts that may come are “Is this really going to work?”, “We’ll never be able to do that..”, “I’ll never be fit and healthy”, “What if it doesn’t work out?”.  Those    are all lower vibration thoughts which lead to lower vibration feelings and the outcome is more of the same.

In the End

Ultimately, whether you focus on the regret and guilt from the past, or the lack and frustration of the future you will send out that lower vibration into the Universe.   The Universe is your support group and will support you in whatever vibration you choose to emit.  The key is deciding what vibration you would rather have returned to you,  high or low?

The 5 Ways to Stay in The Gift of NOW

  1. Stay in Faith – Faith and fear can not occupy the same space.  When you are in faith you have strong conviction that you are fully supported by your DIVINE CREATOR and therefore the Universe is always abundant, joyful and limitless.  Everything is an opportunity for growth, learning and expansion
  2. Re-frame your language – The conversations you have with yourself are key to what you will attract and because of that must be supportive.  Instead of saying “What if this doesn’t work out…?” try “What if everything works out just the way I want it..?”  Those two statements send two very different feelings/vibrations into The Universe and that means what you get back is different also.
  3. Make Moves in Joy – When you set a goal and instead of taking the next step towards it you find all the ways you can’t achieve that goal or it would be hard or you don’t have time, etc, you will attract more of those same feelings and you will put off taking action until you never achieve that goal.  Instead, when you are feeling doubt or fear take the next natural step in achieving your goal no matter how small.  When you are taking action in joy you are showing the Universe how you want to be supported and energizing your vibration around achieving your goal!!
  4. Affirm it!! – Your words are the beginning of your creation…. words leads to thoughts which leads to feelings which leads to manifesting.  Whenever you are feeling regret, fear, sadness, lack or whatever You can use this affirmation or create your own.  ”I am so happy and grateful everything  I want  is already here, thank you, thank you thank you.”
  5. Gratitude – This is simple (reason I left it for #5:) ) Whenever you you are feeling detached from the present,  regretting the past, or worrying about the future you can always refocus and look at all the great blessing in your life right now, and no matter what your current reality is you can always change it.  The power to change is in you.  When you are feeling down about your current circumstances you can seek out (an organization) those who may be less fortunate and  be of service.  Being of service to others is a surefire way to uplift your vibration.

 

In the comments please tell me some ways you stay in the moment.  I would love to hear from you.

Love,

LoAMommy

 

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You Can Trust Me………!

Posted on December 12, 2011 by MelissaEWatts| 3 Comments

Have you ever had an unshakable urge to write something down right away and you didn’t?  I should start carrying around a notepad with me………. Well if you have seen my purse you know I do carry a notebook, journal or something with me most of the time.  I am always having these “conversations” with my higher self and then when I sit down to write sometimes the dialogue is gone from memory. Reason why I will, going forward, write when I am inspired to do so.

 

I digress….

Today…..,well yesterday, while meeting with a business partner we were letting Source lead our meeting and  suddenly we turned to the topic of trust.  I felt guided in some way to speak about trusting The Universe to fully support you in the things you want and my biz partner went on to suggest that when we trust The Universe to support our needs and wants suddenly we take others off the hook so to speak.

Have you ever heard or said “there can not be a relationship if there is no trust”  or something similar, and every area of our lives revolve around relationship, so there is no misunderstanding when I say that EVEN our relationship with The Universe is included.

We have to trust The Universe, are you wondering what that relationship looks like?

The Universe is like a support group and provides for you everything you desire most…..but there is a catch….

The catch is that YOU get to decide what The Universe will support in your life.  That means that if you complain about not having enough support, not having enough time, not finding a good love partner, not having enough money then The Universe will ABSOLUTELY support you in those feelings.

There is a flip side….and that is if you view the world as kind, if you feel grateful and abundant, if you feel the world is on  your side and everything you touch turns to gold then The Universe support that, ABSOLUTELY.

How do you know whats being supported in your life?  Hmm ……just take a look at the experience you are currently living?  What do you complain about?  Do you see lack in your life?  Are your relationships not working out like you want?

When you Trust The Universe to support you in your pursuit of happiness you open yourself to Magical Bliss.  The Magic happens when you decide that you want to be supported in all the Bliss you choose.

So how do you reconstruct your support group?  Here are the steps

  1. Stop where you are and take notice of what you love about your life, be joyful and grateful about it.
  2. Notice the contrast of what you love less.  Not suggesting you dwell just become aware of it.
  3. Decide what you would prefer.  At least knowing what you prefer is a great start.  Some folks out there know exactly what they hate or can’t stand and when you ask them what would their preference  is they get stumped
  4. Be honest in your preferences – it is all about the authentic you.
  5. Be open and allow yourself to receive.  The Universe provides and its not always logical or familiar.

Sounds easier said than done, right?  So if you would like to have a breakthrough that will transform your life may I suggest you book a complimentary Breaking All The Rules Coaching session with me.

The Breaking All The Rules Coaching session is a 30 minute complimentary coaching session that will provide you with the root cause of your limiting belief(s).  These limiting beliefs are at the basis of your support group.  They are the RULES you live by that are sabotaging your success.
REMINDER:  At this present time you are EXACTLY where you need to be in life.  There is nothing wrong with you and you are not broken, so look at your current circumstance with joy and gratitude, ALL IS WELL.  Now if you are ready to leap forward in life and do something differently that is great too.  Breakthrough to Bliss .

In what area of life are you lacking trust, and how is your lack of trust manifesting?

Please leave your comments below.  I would love to hear from you.

Many Blessings

Melissa E Watts

Breakthrough Law of Attraction Coach!!

Break The Rules, Spread Your Wings, Live on purpose!

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It’s Your Move

Posted on December 5, 2011 by MelissaEWatts| Leave a comment

“There is no competition only creation” Wallace D Wattles

 

First let me say this…where ever you are in life right now is exactly where you should be so love it.   Don’t compare yourself to others and their station in life. Just remember that YOU have the power within you to create the experiences you desire.  All you have to do is decide you want to change and then make your move based on whats good for you.

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With that said….

Most people want to change and at the same time they don’t.

Isn’t that interesting?   I am sure you are wondering what I mean, right?  ”

Well here’s the deal… there is a battle between what we want consciously and what we want sub-consciously and MOST OFTEN the sub-concious  mind wins.  This is because our entire being is ruled by the unconscious mind. Our  heartbeat, breathing, walking, talking, blinking you name it.

It’s programming…..plan and simple

You have been programmed to want, want, want, want and never really take any action.  That takes a behavior change or changing your energy.  You really have to “get off your ass so to speak if you want change.

All too often I come across men and women who for some reason want to change and when presented with the one opportunity to make a smooth transition to success they decline.  I am always perplexed  with this.

Doing the same things over and over and expecting a new result is definition of insanity and yet most people are happily comfortable doing the same things over and over and expecting something new to miraculously show up……NOT GONNA HAPPEN.

In order to have something new happen you have to do something new.  That is the only way to TRULY have change in any area of life.

So whats the hold up?

The hold up is deeply ingrained in your sub-conscious mind.  Deep down in your programming, deep down in the rules you have set for yourself.  Rules that you willingly abide by.  Rules that do not serve your highest good. Rules that keep you doing the same things over and over and expecting something new.

All those RULES are tied to fear.  Fear of success, fear of change…..   FEAR!

What does this have to do with applying The Law of Attraction?

Well LoA is a law that, basically states like attracts like, and if you are in a state of FEAR guess what you will attract……that’s right MORE FEAR!

The reason is you DO NOT attract from what you say you want.  You attract from how you feel about what you want, and that is the bottom line.  Attraction is based on your programming.  If you are programmed to “Money is hard to get” or “The rich get richer while the poor get poorer” then guess what?  The Universe will support you in those feelings, and until you deliberately decide to change your INNER SELF or Subconscious mind then you will attract the same ole stuff you always have.

You CAN be a magnet for everything in your life – all you have to to is decide.

How soon do you want to become a magnet to everything you desire?

Would  right now be good for you?

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The Law of Attraction, Is It Always Working?

Posted on November 6, 2011 by MelissaEWatts| Leave a comment

 

 

“Man must cease attributing his problems to his environment, and learn again to exercise his will – his personal responsibility.” - Albert Schweitzer

“What power this is I cannot say. All that I know is that it exists.” - Alexander Graham Bell

I can not tell you how many times I hear ”  The Law of Attraction doesn’t work for me…” , and when I do I am curious to know, why not.  The Law of Attraction is ALWAYS at work.  It works by design or by default and how it works is up to you.  By design you get to manifest peace, prosperity, wellness and all the bliss  you want,  but by default you get to manifest poverty, hardship, illness, and all things you complain about not wanting……

If  NOT FOR you, then who?

If you believe that it won’t work for you then you are living your life by default, meaning you let things happen to you, instead of creating the circumstances you desire through no other effort than exercising your will.  The Law of Attraction is a LAW just like gravity, and I have yet to see anyone not obey this LAW unless on the moon  I suppose.   The real question is what do you desire to have most in your life, and how would having that thing or circumstance  feel.  That is a good starting point for anyone who wants to change circumstances.

Why Doesn’t The Law of Attraction Work For You?

This is simple, your beliefs form your human experience.  That means that whatever you believe is what you will see in your life.  I always use this example… If you desire to be wealthy and deep down inside you believe that wealthy people are greedy or mean then your higher self/subconcious mind will NOT let you attract the true abundance you seek.  We create from the inside out, which means that we have to dig deep down to find out what limits your beliefs have set for you. 

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Finally…..The Truth about The Law of Attraction

Posted on September 16, 2011 by MelissaEWatts| Leave a comment

THE BACKGROUND

I remembered way back in the spring of 2008 when I first watched “The Secret”  I was really impressed with the teachers and enjoyed learning this “new”concept”.  I told everyone I knew then to watch it.

 Prior to watching the movie I was working from home as a sales rep for some online company, I can’t even remember the company, and my sales leader kept talking about this movie.  Watch it, watch it she told us and often used affirmations like “I am a Money Magnet”,  “I make $1000 a day” and so on.  Finally I watched, and I enjoyed it.  I was enlightened by the information I took from this movie and I began learning, reading, and researching about this “new” concept. The knowledge I gained was both rewarding and healing….to a degree….more on that later.  It was a turning point.

I started having success  with using LoA by design – focusing on good feelings, and thoughts etc. I wanted to teach others about this law and how they could us it to create bliss in their lives.  At the time though I was struggling financially with two children and in a relationship that was sort of “on hold” because we didn’t have any money to live and enjoy life.  As a college educated person I thought how could this be I had enjoyed success in prior years, so what was going on?  I was blaming others for my own problems and pointing fingers felt good, at least at the time.  

 After more success I decided to start a Personal Development Company  Dragonfly Business Center in late 2008  that focused on teaching /coaching The Law of Attraction.  Clients came but not at the rate I wanted…  Then I had a revelation in 20o9 when I started to develop to develop my own processes for having success with LoA, something was missing for those “commercial” teachings of LoA.   Remember I had done so much research I almost knew everything there was to know….almost…

If you know anything about “commercial” law of attraction teachings then you  know at the core you have been taught ASK for what you want, Believe you can have it, Recieve what you want and viola it is yours.  IWell you should know from some or my earlier postings that this is not 100% accurate. There is something VERY VALUABLE missing.

I started The Triad Law of Attraction Mastermind Group in Greensboro, NC in May 2010 with the idea that there was something missing from the teachings.  I cam across many people who were successful in using this law or were struggling.  I found that many struggle because of that missing piece. 

Just the last week  I was talking with my Intuitive Energy Healer and I was feeling some sort of way because I felt some of those who came to my LoA mastermind practiced LoA very superficially and I told her I wanted to re-structure what I was doing to attract those who really wanted to attract and are willing to dig deep to get underneath and find what is REALLY holding them back.  Then some other people came into my experience who talked about WANTING to REALLY practice LoA on a deeper level.  I knew I had to write something!!

Don’t get me wrong. I love The Law of Attraction,and believe it is real and true,  learning how to use it by design has changed my life, and I had to figure out what was missing in order to use it even better and help others to use it as well.

WHEW!!  I have been wanting to write this for a while but had my own limiting beliefs to delete.  You know the ones, what will “they think”, how will I look writing such controversy, will people like it or will they hate me and on and one?  I released those beliefs they weren’t serving me.

THE TRUTH

Why do you struggle with the Law of Attraction? 

The Law of Attraction basically states Like Attracts Like, very basic, right?  Think good thoughts, focus on feeling good and when bad feelings or thoughts come up ignore them or bring your attention back to joy, love and gratitude.  In my experience that is “hard work” or at least it takes “Will Power”  like avoiding your favorite food when you are dieting.  Which in the end leaves you feeling horrible because you want something and can’t have it.  That’s the inner struggle.  Thinking good thoughts, feeling good, affirmations, visualizations ALL work….after a while, but usually not before you give up frustrated and thinking The Law of Attraction is wrong and doesn’t work. It’s much deeper and simpler then you ever imagined.

How do we ACTUALLY create?

We create  our expereinces from a feeling place deep inside, un-consciously.  Not superficially, consciously,  in the “faking  it til you make it” mode, where deep down you feel like real crap but on the outside you look like you won the lottery.  What you will actually create is more of the same experience.  When I “discovered” that we create our experience from our un-conscious mind.  Which means that if we say “I am a Money Magnet” and we feel undeserving of having money we never really become a money magnet.  In fact if like attracts like and we feel like we do not deserve money we will likely attract more circumstances where we feel undeserving of money. 

Whats Missing?

 

 

While the Law of Attraction is the most powerful law in the Universe, some of the current teachings of the Law of Attraction miss the idea that we are creating from a deeper level of mind.  We are TOTALLY controlled by our un-conscious mind, and it is not until we get inside of it that we change what we attract. What’s in our unconscious mind? Our beliefs, our beliefs about ourselves determines what, how, who,  and when we attract.  Some beliefs limit our true potential.  Just take a look at your life , HONESTLY look at every aspect, see what you have created so far.  Do you like it for the most part or not, becuause what you see is DIRECTLY related to what is going on in your unconscious  mind and the beliefs you hold in there.  You can change this

Become a Magnet for All Things Good

This is VERY simple.  You have to GO DEEPER, DEEPER into your un-conscious mind, into the most inner parts of you that you haven’t addressed.  Once you get there you have to connect with your LIMITING beliefs, becoming aware of them, taking the learning then letting them go, releasing them, killing them off.  Then bringing about new improved beliefs that love and honor you and what you desire.

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So glad to get that of my chest, and there is more to come! :)

 

Namaste,

Melissa E Watts “Law of Attraction Mommy”, Law of Attraction Breakthrough Coach

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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