THE BACKGROUND

I remembered way back in the spring of 2008 when I first watched “The Secret”  I was really impressed with the teachers and enjoyed learning this “new”concept”.  I told everyone I knew then to watch it.

 Prior to watching the movie I was working from home as a sales rep for some online company, I can’t even remember the company, and my sales leader kept talking about this movie.  Watch it, watch it she told us and often used affirmations like “I am a Money Magnet”,  “I make $1000 a day” and so on.  Finally I watched, and I enjoyed it.  I was enlightened by the information I took from this movie and I began learning, reading, and researching about this “new” concept. The knowledge I gained was both rewarding and healing….to a degree….more on that later.  It was a turning point.

I started having success  with using LoA by design – focusing on good feelings, and thoughts etc. I wanted to teach others about this law and how they could us it to create bliss in their lives.  At the time though I was struggling financially with two children and in a relationship that was sort of “on hold” because we didn’t have any money to live and enjoy life.  As a college educated person I thought how could this be I had enjoyed success in prior years, so what was going on?  I was blaming others for my own problems and pointing fingers felt good, at least at the time.  

 After more success I decided to start a Personal Development Company  Dragonfly Business Center in late 2008  that focused on teaching /coaching The Law of Attraction.  Clients came but not at the rate I wanted…  Then I had a revelation in 20o9 when I started to develop to develop my own processes for having success with LoA, something was missing for those “commercial” teachings of LoA.   Remember I had done so much research I almost knew everything there was to know….almost…

If you know anything about “commercial” law of attraction teachings then you  know at the core you have been taught ASK for what you want, Believe you can have it, Recieve what you want and viola it is yours.  IWell you should know from some or my earlier postings that this is not 100% accurate. There is something VERY VALUABLE missing.

I started The Triad Law of Attraction Mastermind Group in Greensboro, NC in May 2010 with the idea that there was something missing from the teachings.  I cam across many people who were successful in using this law or were struggling.  I found that many struggle because of that missing piece. 

Just the last week  I was talking with my Intuitive Energy Healer and I was feeling some sort of way because I felt some of those who came to my LoA mastermind practiced LoA very superficially and I told her I wanted to re-structure what I was doing to attract those who really wanted to attract and are willing to dig deep to get underneath and find what is REALLY holding them back.  Then some other people came into my experience who talked about WANTING to REALLY practice LoA on a deeper level.  I knew I had to write something!!

Don’t get me wrong. I love The Law of Attraction,and believe it is real and true,  learning how to use it by design has changed my life, and I had to figure out what was missing in order to use it even better and help others to use it as well.

WHEW!!  I have been wanting to write this for a while but had my own limiting beliefs to delete.  You know the ones, what will “they think”, how will I look writing such controversy, will people like it or will they hate me and on and one?  I released those beliefs they weren’t serving me.

THE TRUTH

Why do you struggle with the Law of Attraction? 

The Law of Attraction basically states Like Attracts Like, very basic, right?  Think good thoughts, focus on feeling good and when bad feelings or thoughts come up ignore them or bring your attention back to joy, love and gratitude.  In my experience that is “hard work” or at least it takes “Will Power”  like avoiding your favorite food when you are dieting.  Which in the end leaves you feeling horrible because you want something and can’t have it.  That’s the inner struggle.  Thinking good thoughts, feeling good, affirmations, visualizations ALL work….after a while, but usually not before you give up frustrated and thinking The Law of Attraction is wrong and doesn’t work. It’s much deeper and simpler then you ever imagined.

How do we ACTUALLY create?

We create  our expereinces from a feeling place deep inside, un-consciously.  Not superficially, consciously,  in the “faking  it til you make it” mode, where deep down you feel like real crap but on the outside you look like you won the lottery.  What you will actually create is more of the same experience.  When I “discovered” that we create our experience from our un-conscious mind.  Which means that if we say “I am a Money Magnet” and we feel undeserving of having money we never really become a money magnet.  In fact if like attracts like and we feel like we do not deserve money we will likely attract more circumstances where we feel undeserving of money. 

Whats Missing?

 

 

While the Law of Attraction is the most powerful law in the Universe, some of the current teachings of the Law of Attraction miss the idea that we are creating from a deeper level of mind.  We are TOTALLY controlled by our un-conscious mind, and it is not until we get inside of it that we change what we attract. What’s in our unconscious mind? Our beliefs, our beliefs about ourselves determines what, how, who,  and when we attract.  Some beliefs limit our true potential.  Just take a look at your life , HONESTLY look at every aspect, see what you have created so far.  Do you like it for the most part or not, becuause what you see is DIRECTLY related to what is going on in your unconscious  mind and the beliefs you hold in there.  You can change this

Become a Magnet for All Things Good

This is VERY simple.  You have to GO DEEPER, DEEPER into your un-conscious mind, into the most inner parts of you that you haven’t addressed.  Once you get there you have to connect with your LIMITING beliefs, becoming aware of them, taking the learning then letting them go, releasing them, killing them off.  Then bringing about new improved beliefs that love and honor you and what you desire.

I am so passionate about the missing piece that I have created a 45 day program Magnetize Your Life that will turn you into a magnet for all you desire.  This course will begin Sept 20th and you can learn all about it at Magnetize Your Life, and will take you through my 7 Modules teaching you step by step how to REALLY use the Law of Attraction, magnetize your life  SIMPLY and PERMANENTLY by letting go of the limiting beliefs that keep you stuck in mediocrity when you know you are a STAR!!  A Radical Paradigm Shift!!

Click Here if you are ready to say to the world “Baby I’m A Starr!!”

 

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So glad to get that of my chest, and there is more to come! :)

 

Namaste,

Melissa E Watts “Law of Attraction Mommy”, Law of Attraction Breakthrough Coach